SINGAPORE: An employer’s frustration was laid bare in a Facebook post that quickly drew attention: after spending about S$7,500 to bring a domestic helper to Singapore, the helper left after just four months. The employer, who posted anonymously in the Maid, FDW in Singapore Facebook group, said the helper had informed her of plans to [ ]
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