SINGAPORE: In what might be the most Singaporean moral dilemma of the week, one employer has found herself balancing between legal obligations, moral caution, and the very human complexities of love, served with a side of travel insurance. Posting on r/askSingapore, the concerned employer sought advice from other Singaporeans after her domestic helper asked to [ ]
Sunday 2 November 2025
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