SINGAPORE: A Singaporean student’s simple desire to date outside his race has sparked an online firestorm — and exposed the quiet, uncomfortable truth about racial preferences, parental expectations, and cultural rigidity in modern-day Singapore. The anonymous SG boy, posting on Reddit r/SingaporeR, dropped this emotional revelation: “I have extremely racist parents! I’m Chinese and I [ ]
Tuesday 14 October 2025
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‘My parents say they’ll disown me if I date non-Chinese girls’ — SG college student asks, ‘Why are they like this? What can I do?’
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