SINGAPORE: An employer recently vented her frustration on social media, saying she “felt used” by her domestic helper who suddenly decided to leave after finding what she believed was a “better” employer. Posting in the Direct Hire Transfer Singapore Maid/Domestic Helper Facebook group on Friday (Oct 17), the employer shared that the helper had only [ ]
Monday 20 October 2025
theindependent - 21 hours ago
‘Felt like we were just a stepping stone’: SG employer says she feels used after her domestic helper, who earned S$850, quit after finding a ‘better employer’
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